Nah, I totally get that. I have severe social anxiety AND I'm a writer- my head is never completely in the moment. People who meet me in person often say I seem aloof. I'm not; I'm just never really fully there. So, yeah, I can definitely see where you see that with Jade.
And, yeah, he always looks tired. But, seriously, he was always very sweet when I met him with a very dry sense of humor underneath. If you're not used to that kind of personality, it can be off putting.
Hunter is definitely completely in the moment when he meets fans. It's almost like he's at a party, meeting people for the first time, and just chilling. Different vibes. I honestly have to say that Hunter's personality is a bit overwhelming for me. Like, it's just too much, but not in a "he's an ass" way.
It's nice to see how their personalities play out on stage as well.